Today's the 21st. Only four more days to go! Yippeeee, am on leave on Thursday afternoon, and catching a flight back to Sarawak for the weekend. Having a dinner bash tonight with my colleagues to celebrate Christmas. Think the venue is at the Mustard Tree (?), near our office. Have a gift exchange too. :) Had a quick peek at the pressies just now, and a package labelled with my name which had a bottle of ketchup in it (I think!), plus some other things which I can't tell what they are yet. Have to wait a bit more.
Am winding down now that it is nearing year end. Some outstanding work to clear tomorrow, and a bit more when I come back. Already in the holiday mood though! My colleagues and I are wearing shades of red and green today, and yep, am wearing a very red shirt with a red tie which almost totally blends in with the shirt colour. Thought of wearing a green tie this morning, but would have been a bit much with my red shirt.
Ho! Ho! Ho!.... a holiday we will go........
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Monday, December 19, 2005
A Moment...
A moment.....
.. of silence, to reflect on past actions.
.. of silence, to appreciate the inner glow.
.. of contemplation, to treasure good friends.
.. of contemplation, to ponder the "why"s of the world.
A moment.....
.. of splendour, to create something out of imagination.
.. of splendour, to produce something from the toils of honest labour.
.. of wonder, to imagine the mightiness of nature's bountiness.
.. of wonder, to feel the vastness of God's creation.
A moment.....
.. of joy, to see true happiness reflected in the mirror.
.. of even purer joy, to see the happiness reflected in the eyes of a friend.
.. of awe, to know that one is loved.
.. of awe, to know that someone cares.
A moment.....
.. of comfort, to bask in endless love.
.. of comfort, to feel needed.
.. to marvel, the intricacies of friendship.
.. to marvel, your presence in my life.
.. of silence, to reflect on past actions.
.. of silence, to appreciate the inner glow.
.. of contemplation, to treasure good friends.
.. of contemplation, to ponder the "why"s of the world.
A moment.....
.. of splendour, to create something out of imagination.
.. of splendour, to produce something from the toils of honest labour.
.. of wonder, to imagine the mightiness of nature's bountiness.
.. of wonder, to feel the vastness of God's creation.
A moment.....
.. of joy, to see true happiness reflected in the mirror.
.. of even purer joy, to see the happiness reflected in the eyes of a friend.
.. of awe, to know that one is loved.
.. of awe, to know that someone cares.
A moment.....
.. of comfort, to bask in endless love.
.. of comfort, to feel needed.
.. to marvel, the intricacies of friendship.
.. to marvel, your presence in my life.
Thursday, December 15, 2005
Ramblings
Was feeling down in the dumps on Wednesday. Just a general feeling of sadness and moodiness, but went to MidValley specifically to go to MPH to buy some books. While I was there, browsing through the books and then looking through stuff in Jusco took my mind off things. Bought 2 hardcover books as Christmas presents (to be brought back to Sarawak). Later towards the evening, got a call from a friend, chatted for a bit, and that cheered me up somewhat.
Some changes happening to the car park rental bays at the place where I am staying. It seems that beginning next month, the management office won’t be renting out anymore car parks. Apparently, quite a few people are affected, and many are looking to rent available lots. As a typical demand supply issue, the management office guided those who would like to rent out their parking bays at RM150 per month! Quite steep, and represent an increase of RM50 from currently, but given supply constraints, hard to argue for lower amount (i.e. if you don’t want, someone else will want). Supply seems to be especially constrained for Blocks 1 and 2. I managed to secure a parking lot, but alas it is at Block 3. At least the parking space is near the lift, and the walking distance is about the same from my current one (albeit in the opposite direction). Just found out today that someone in Block 1 wants to rent out her parking bay at RM150 per month, but with some conditions attached. Have called her up already for a meet up on Friday after work to see where exactly is the parking bay, and hopefully negotiate some terms. Will see how it turns out.
Year end is coming, sometimes I sit and ponder what I have achieved this year. Time seemed to have flown by so quickly, that it is really shocking. As I get older, the months seem to fly by faster. This year has been a reasonably good year for me. Have a few regrets, and sometimes wish I could have done things or react differently, but what has happened is done. I do see myself generally as quite reasonable and easy going, but looking from another’s point of view, admittedly, I can be quite difficult and uncompromising. Sometimes, I wish I could have smiled more, as my mood does affect others, especially those who care. Sometimes, I wish I could have been more sensitive to others’ feelings, and think more about others as opposed to myself. Sometimes,….. and the list can go on.
There are happy moments though. Smiling into the eyes of a loved one, sharing tender moments… even a hug can have a calming effect. Sometimes also, having a quiet moment to myself can be very relaxing. Grab a book, and if engrossing enough, will be totally absorbed until all troubles are forgotten. The mind will be temporarily lost in the realm of imagination brought to life by the books. And yeah, I did have these reading moments during the year, when my day has been spent sometimes thinking about the book, eager to finish reading it.
Sometimes, the joy of thinking of getting a gift, of wrapping it thoughtfully, of giving it to friends gives a very warm feeling. Especially seeing the gift being eagerly opened and appreciated. Oft times though, I have no clue what to get, but just go with the feel. I guess it is the thought that counts. Receiving gifts would also be a joy, the very thought that someone has thought of you, and has taken the effort of getting a gift for you can also be very joyful. Alas, getting sentimental here. Must be the festive season……..
Some changes happening to the car park rental bays at the place where I am staying. It seems that beginning next month, the management office won’t be renting out anymore car parks. Apparently, quite a few people are affected, and many are looking to rent available lots. As a typical demand supply issue, the management office guided those who would like to rent out their parking bays at RM150 per month! Quite steep, and represent an increase of RM50 from currently, but given supply constraints, hard to argue for lower amount (i.e. if you don’t want, someone else will want). Supply seems to be especially constrained for Blocks 1 and 2. I managed to secure a parking lot, but alas it is at Block 3. At least the parking space is near the lift, and the walking distance is about the same from my current one (albeit in the opposite direction). Just found out today that someone in Block 1 wants to rent out her parking bay at RM150 per month, but with some conditions attached. Have called her up already for a meet up on Friday after work to see where exactly is the parking bay, and hopefully negotiate some terms. Will see how it turns out.
Year end is coming, sometimes I sit and ponder what I have achieved this year. Time seemed to have flown by so quickly, that it is really shocking. As I get older, the months seem to fly by faster. This year has been a reasonably good year for me. Have a few regrets, and sometimes wish I could have done things or react differently, but what has happened is done. I do see myself generally as quite reasonable and easy going, but looking from another’s point of view, admittedly, I can be quite difficult and uncompromising. Sometimes, I wish I could have smiled more, as my mood does affect others, especially those who care. Sometimes, I wish I could have been more sensitive to others’ feelings, and think more about others as opposed to myself. Sometimes,….. and the list can go on.
There are happy moments though. Smiling into the eyes of a loved one, sharing tender moments… even a hug can have a calming effect. Sometimes also, having a quiet moment to myself can be very relaxing. Grab a book, and if engrossing enough, will be totally absorbed until all troubles are forgotten. The mind will be temporarily lost in the realm of imagination brought to life by the books. And yeah, I did have these reading moments during the year, when my day has been spent sometimes thinking about the book, eager to finish reading it.
Sometimes, the joy of thinking of getting a gift, of wrapping it thoughtfully, of giving it to friends gives a very warm feeling. Especially seeing the gift being eagerly opened and appreciated. Oft times though, I have no clue what to get, but just go with the feel. I guess it is the thought that counts. Receiving gifts would also be a joy, the very thought that someone has thought of you, and has taken the effort of getting a gift for you can also be very joyful. Alas, getting sentimental here. Must be the festive season……..
Monday, December 12, 2005
Ding! Dong! Ding! Dong!
Ding! Dong! Ding! Dong!
Was singing The First Noel during one of our carolling sessions:
"The First Noël" (sometimes "The First Nowell") is a traditional English Christmas carol, most likely from the 16th or 17th century, but possibly dating from as early as the 13th century. The word Nowell comes from the French word Noël for "Christmas", from the Latin word natalis ("birth").
Also sang others, like A Festive Madrigal (simplier version, and not the proper madrigal), Carol of the Bells (hence the Ding! Dong! Ding! Dong!, Silver Bells, Whtie Christmas, as well as more traditional four-parters for Angels We Have Heard on High, O Come All Ye Faithfull, We Three Kings, Silent Night, Joy to the World, Away in a Manger, and many others.
The session at GE Mall yesterday was quite ok. There were absolutely brilliant moments, but of course, there were some not so great parts when some within the group didn't get their act together.
Also saw Narnia in the morning. Quite good actually, liked it better than Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, but thought that the beginning was a bit slow. The pace subsequently moves though, so it was better after that. The witch was particularly brilliant! She's the same actress who played one of the "angels" in Constantine. Definitely has a chilly demeanour, but the role suited her to perfection.
Was singing The First Noel during one of our carolling sessions:
"The First Noël" (sometimes "The First Nowell") is a traditional English Christmas carol, most likely from the 16th or 17th century, but possibly dating from as early as the 13th century. The word Nowell comes from the French word Noël for "Christmas", from the Latin word natalis ("birth").
Also sang others, like A Festive Madrigal (simplier version, and not the proper madrigal), Carol of the Bells (hence the Ding! Dong! Ding! Dong!, Silver Bells, Whtie Christmas, as well as more traditional four-parters for Angels We Have Heard on High, O Come All Ye Faithfull, We Three Kings, Silent Night, Joy to the World, Away in a Manger, and many others.
The session at GE Mall yesterday was quite ok. There were absolutely brilliant moments, but of course, there were some not so great parts when some within the group didn't get their act together.
Also saw Narnia in the morning. Quite good actually, liked it better than Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, but thought that the beginning was a bit slow. The pace subsequently moves though, so it was better after that. The witch was particularly brilliant! She's the same actress who played one of the "angels" in Constantine. Definitely has a chilly demeanour, but the role suited her to perfection.
Wednesday, December 07, 2005
Year end 2005
End of the year is coming. Thought that would be winding down at work, but seems to be the opposite. Have some new proposals to do up before end year for January's BoD meeting. Luckily, targets have been met. The fund I am managing has also achieved the year end target, but anything can happen before the end of the month. So, have turned defensive in my portfolio to maintain current position.
Socially, have some carolling gigs lined up. Will be singing in Great Eastern Mall on 10Dec, 11Dec and 18Dec. 1 hour slot each. Just had a call earlier on, and I think the group managed to confirm another gig. Not sure of details yet, but these paying gigs will help provide some extra pocket money for Christmas shopping! Will also be singing in an old folks home somewhere in PJ on 13Dec, but this will be for charity. Heard the group mentioned that we will also be bringing some essential items as gifts (i.e. rice, detergent, soap, etc) for the residents of the old folks home. There was also talks of carolling in one orphanage, but no details confirmed yet. It's been a while since I went carolling to orphanages and old folks home. Think the last time I went was with the local chuch choir a few years back. Needs organising, and that's the hard bit, as well as rehearsals to learn up the hymns properly. Still, I guess someone just needs to volunteer. In the current case, one of the group members suggested the idea, and took the initiative to call up the place to check and liase with the group for confirmation. Good for her! Tis the season to be merry, and always good to spread some cheer.
Socially, have some carolling gigs lined up. Will be singing in Great Eastern Mall on 10Dec, 11Dec and 18Dec. 1 hour slot each. Just had a call earlier on, and I think the group managed to confirm another gig. Not sure of details yet, but these paying gigs will help provide some extra pocket money for Christmas shopping! Will also be singing in an old folks home somewhere in PJ on 13Dec, but this will be for charity. Heard the group mentioned that we will also be bringing some essential items as gifts (i.e. rice, detergent, soap, etc) for the residents of the old folks home. There was also talks of carolling in one orphanage, but no details confirmed yet. It's been a while since I went carolling to orphanages and old folks home. Think the last time I went was with the local chuch choir a few years back. Needs organising, and that's the hard bit, as well as rehearsals to learn up the hymns properly. Still, I guess someone just needs to volunteer. In the current case, one of the group members suggested the idea, and took the initiative to call up the place to check and liase with the group for confirmation. Good for her! Tis the season to be merry, and always good to spread some cheer.
Sunday, December 04, 2005
Happenings
Wow, been a while since I last updated. Quite a bit has happened, but has been too late to update, and sometimes not really up to it.
Just came back from Singapore today. Drove down (in a friend's car) on Friday night, after work (3 in the car). Quite rushed actually, and it was raining quite heavily in certain stretches. Got into Spore after midnight, and only checked into the RELC International Hotel at about 2am. Hotel room was quite basic (3 star), but comfortable. Quite reasonable at S$60 per room per night. However, location was not as strategic as Phoenix Hotel, in that had to walk a bit to the MRT or otherwise catch a cab.
Went down for an a capella camp held in the Republic Polytechnic, organised by the Acappella Society of Singapore. "The Idea of North" (Trish, Naomi, Nick, and Andrew) was there, to conduct certain sessions, as well as holding a charity concert in the National University of Singapore. Learnt quite a few new things about Acappella, experimented with different forms of singing the music. Also had a masterclass session with The Idea of North, where they critiqued The Wicked Pitches group, giving pointers here and there on how we can improve. The concert in the evening was quite good. Brought acappella singing to a whole new standard.
Was also in Spore two to three week's back for a holiday with some friends. Previous time I went down was for work, so had no real time to look around. This time, purposely went as "a tourist", and did the touristsy thing. Visited Sentosa, the Zoo, as well as the Night Safari. Sentosa was quite nice. Liked the orchid garden. Went on the Luge ride, and found out that the Msia Tourism thingy had a special package for Malaysian passport holders - show your passport, fill in a form, and get another 2 rides for Free!! So, there we went again for 2 more rides. Liked the zoo quite a bit, but didn't fancy the night safary. Over hyped I think.
Other than that, quite busy at work. Was analysing and proposing to buy some new bonds, as well as doing bits and pieces of reporting, and other internal stuff. Should be quiter in December (I hope!).
Now gearing for up for some carolling sessions, but not many gigs this year, so pocket money lesser. :(
What else has been happening? Oh, saw previews of "Memoirs of a Geisha", and sort of remembered my sister has the book. Finished reading it already. Quite ok, and interesting to read about the life of "Sayuri". Not sure if the movie will be good. Hopefully watchable.
Just came back from Singapore today. Drove down (in a friend's car) on Friday night, after work (3 in the car). Quite rushed actually, and it was raining quite heavily in certain stretches. Got into Spore after midnight, and only checked into the RELC International Hotel at about 2am. Hotel room was quite basic (3 star), but comfortable. Quite reasonable at S$60 per room per night. However, location was not as strategic as Phoenix Hotel, in that had to walk a bit to the MRT or otherwise catch a cab.
Went down for an a capella camp held in the Republic Polytechnic, organised by the Acappella Society of Singapore. "The Idea of North" (Trish, Naomi, Nick, and Andrew) was there, to conduct certain sessions, as well as holding a charity concert in the National University of Singapore. Learnt quite a few new things about Acappella, experimented with different forms of singing the music. Also had a masterclass session with The Idea of North, where they critiqued The Wicked Pitches group, giving pointers here and there on how we can improve. The concert in the evening was quite good. Brought acappella singing to a whole new standard.
Was also in Spore two to three week's back for a holiday with some friends. Previous time I went down was for work, so had no real time to look around. This time, purposely went as "a tourist", and did the touristsy thing. Visited Sentosa, the Zoo, as well as the Night Safari. Sentosa was quite nice. Liked the orchid garden. Went on the Luge ride, and found out that the Msia Tourism thingy had a special package for Malaysian passport holders - show your passport, fill in a form, and get another 2 rides for Free!! So, there we went again for 2 more rides. Liked the zoo quite a bit, but didn't fancy the night safary. Over hyped I think.
Other than that, quite busy at work. Was analysing and proposing to buy some new bonds, as well as doing bits and pieces of reporting, and other internal stuff. Should be quiter in December (I hope!).
Now gearing for up for some carolling sessions, but not many gigs this year, so pocket money lesser. :(
What else has been happening? Oh, saw previews of "Memoirs of a Geisha", and sort of remembered my sister has the book. Finished reading it already. Quite ok, and interesting to read about the life of "Sayuri". Not sure if the movie will be good. Hopefully watchable.
Friday, November 11, 2005
Heli, oh helicopter
10 November 2005 – Had an interesting day today. Took a flight on a helicopter as part of my work. 1st time on a heli, and 1st time for work! The heli is new, just arrived from France about 3 days ago. They flew the heli from France to Malaysia over 14 days with various stopovers. It’s the “Super Puma AS 332L2” which costs about RM70 mil. Financiers to the company were invited to view the latest asset acquisition, and were later given a ride in the heli, and treated to lunch.
Have always thought that the seating capacity was limited on a heli, but surprisingly, this one could seat about 20pax. We went from Subang Terminal 3, flying over PJ to KL area. Circled KLCC, proceeded to Kajang area, and then to Putrajaya, before heading back to Subang. Apparently, air traffic control is quite strict. Two trips were made for the “joy ride”. Luckily, I was on the 1st trip, and we managed to see Putrajaya, but the 2nd trip was not given entry to Putrajaya for some reason or another. Air traffic controlled via KLIA.
The day was sort of hazy, but view was still quite good. It’s different compared to viewing from a plane, as the heli could fly lower, so it was a better view.
The take off was smooth, sort of lifted off the ground a couple of meters, and then moved forward and proceeded to take off like an aeroplane while airborne. Cool! It was hot in the heli and kind of noisy. Landing was smooth too. Almost didn’t feel it at all. Enjoyed the view a lot. Quite an experience.
Attaching some pics as samples, the bluish colour is due to the heli’s window colour I think. Still, quite a view! Will attach more pics later.
Menara Maybank! One of the more prominent landmarks in KL. Took a few other shots of Menara Maybank, and will upload later. Taking quite a while to do on my home PC.
KLCC and the KL Tower. We went much much closer to the twin towers and the KL Tower, and managed to get some more shots. But these are just some teasers. :)
Have always thought that the seating capacity was limited on a heli, but surprisingly, this one could seat about 20pax. We went from Subang Terminal 3, flying over PJ to KL area. Circled KLCC, proceeded to Kajang area, and then to Putrajaya, before heading back to Subang. Apparently, air traffic control is quite strict. Two trips were made for the “joy ride”. Luckily, I was on the 1st trip, and we managed to see Putrajaya, but the 2nd trip was not given entry to Putrajaya for some reason or another. Air traffic controlled via KLIA.
The day was sort of hazy, but view was still quite good. It’s different compared to viewing from a plane, as the heli could fly lower, so it was a better view.The take off was smooth, sort of lifted off the ground a couple of meters, and then moved forward and proceeded to take off like an aeroplane while airborne. Cool! It was hot in the heli and kind of noisy. Landing was smooth too. Almost didn’t feel it at all. Enjoyed the view a lot. Quite an experience.
Attaching some pics as samples, the bluish colour is due to the heli’s window colour I think. Still, quite a view! Will attach more pics later.Menara Maybank! One of the more prominent landmarks in KL. Took a few other shots of Menara Maybank, and will upload later. Taking quite a while to do on my home PC.
KLCC and the KL Tower. We went much much closer to the twin towers and the KL Tower, and managed to get some more shots. But these are just some teasers. :)
Thursday, November 03, 2005
Movies
Went to see "A Corpse Bride" today. Quite different, even in terms of being a cartoon. Show was quite entertaining, with a bit of laugh in between, but didn't think it was superb. Actually, I wouldn't have gone to watch it but was recommended by my elder sister. On the whole, it was watchable, but could have waited for the DVD instead.
Also went to see "The Exorcism of Emily Rose". Must admit, was apprehensive at first, as I tend to avoid horror shows, but this was not as scary as others I have seen. More like a court room drama, but serves to tell the story of Emily Rose and her demonic possession. The cinema was packed, and sat right in front, so the effect was doubly compounded! It certainly made one think about the spiritual realm, and question whether one believe or not. I liked the movie, but again, didn't think it was brilliant. Still, should be watched on the big screen for the few effects which it had.
Also went to see "The Exorcism of Emily Rose". Must admit, was apprehensive at first, as I tend to avoid horror shows, but this was not as scary as others I have seen. More like a court room drama, but serves to tell the story of Emily Rose and her demonic possession. The cinema was packed, and sat right in front, so the effect was doubly compounded! It certainly made one think about the spiritual realm, and question whether one believe or not. I liked the movie, but again, didn't think it was brilliant. Still, should be watched on the big screen for the few effects which it had.
Tuesday, October 25, 2005
Energy
Was having lunch today with a group of colleagues at the food court. Sometimes, when am not in the office, I like to destress and not think about work, but have this colleague who usually radiates negative energy, complaining about this and that, this person and that person. It gets tiresome after a while. There's so much negative energy that I feel like shutting off. Unfortunately I cant... :(
Usually, simply in one ear, and out the other is the best solution, but is hard when the colleague expects an answer or comment to the statements being made. Must think happy thoughts! Must think happy thoughts!
Have read this story about mood. What is your mood for the day, is actually what you want it to be. Wake up thanking God for another day and for the bountiful gifts which have been bestowed upon us. We condition our feelings for the day. Whether we want to be happy or sad, joyful or depressed. Think positive thoughts, and positive energy will radiate. It will lift the mood, the feel, and of course, the spirit. Channel positive comments, smile, and enjoy the day. May be hard at times, especially when there is too much work, compounded with office "issues", but must keep in mind to think positive. Only then can we be a joy to others.
Usually, simply in one ear, and out the other is the best solution, but is hard when the colleague expects an answer or comment to the statements being made. Must think happy thoughts! Must think happy thoughts!
Have read this story about mood. What is your mood for the day, is actually what you want it to be. Wake up thanking God for another day and for the bountiful gifts which have been bestowed upon us. We condition our feelings for the day. Whether we want to be happy or sad, joyful or depressed. Think positive thoughts, and positive energy will radiate. It will lift the mood, the feel, and of course, the spirit. Channel positive comments, smile, and enjoy the day. May be hard at times, especially when there is too much work, compounded with office "issues", but must keep in mind to think positive. Only then can we be a joy to others.
Wedding Dinner
Just got back from an ex-colleague's wedding dinner held at the Chinese Restaurant in Wentworth Hotel. Was surprised that it was held on a weekday to begin at 8:30pm. Initially concerned on traffic, as it rained quite a bit earlier on, but was glad traffic around 7:45pm was smooth (luckily cos' of Ramadan period).
Didn't look forward to the food, but was pleasantly surprised. Quality was quite decent, but now feeling the after effects of MSG. My ex-colleague looked good in a light pink dress and was radiant during the dinner (not due to the booze!). Think there were slightly more than 10 tables with the bride hosting.
There was also another wedding "next door", with some very off-key Karaoke singing. Luckily my ex-colleague had the good grace of not having a karaoke session during the dinner. Otherwise, it will be like competing! As it was, the background music played was kind of loud.
All in all, it was a pleasant dinner although on a tiring week day. Reasonably good food, and was good to see the bride and groom together. Quite a matching pair. Here's to both the bride and groom - Y and W!!!
Didn't look forward to the food, but was pleasantly surprised. Quality was quite decent, but now feeling the after effects of MSG. My ex-colleague looked good in a light pink dress and was radiant during the dinner (not due to the booze!). Think there were slightly more than 10 tables with the bride hosting.
There was also another wedding "next door", with some very off-key Karaoke singing. Luckily my ex-colleague had the good grace of not having a karaoke session during the dinner. Otherwise, it will be like competing! As it was, the background music played was kind of loud.
All in all, it was a pleasant dinner although on a tiring week day. Reasonably good food, and was good to see the bride and groom together. Quite a matching pair. Here's to both the bride and groom - Y and W!!!
Friday, October 21, 2005
Green Eyed Monster
Came across this article – thought it was quite good.
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Dealing with jealousy - What are the ways?
Jealousy is an emotion that can be very damaging to ANY relationship. It can also prevent you from growing emotionally. It is not the same thing as envy. Jealousy wants what someone else has. Envy is when you don't want someone else to have what you don't have. If a person is jealous, they already have what is desired but they are afraid of losing it. When you are feeling jealous, you are undergoing an emotional combination of anger, dependency, hurt, and self doubt. When you spend time focusing on what you are not, this is a result of insecurity. Sometimes when we are afraid of losing something, we actually cause it to happen because of our actions and behaviors. All our thoughts and actions are centered around our fears and insecurities. This causes more fear and insecurity. These feelings cause other harmful feelings and may result in us indulging in self pity. What are some ways of dealing with jealousy?
· Develop independence.
We need to be sure we are not overly dependant on any one person. We need to focus on the good things we have and not on what we don't have.
· Focus on developing more confidence and attractiveness.
Sometimes something simple like getting our hair done or changing our style of clothing can help. Taking a course on self esteem or assertiveness is also beneficial.
· Be honest with yourself.
Sit down with paper and list things that are making you jealous. Look at it objectively. Are these things silly or trivial or are they really important?
· Communicate with the person who is the object of your jealousy.
Tell them your feelings. Is that person doing something that is causing you to be jealous? Letting them know can often help the problem. If this other person cares for you, they will work on changing the behavior that is adding to your jealousy. Being aware of your feelings can also help you cope better. Realize that jealousy shows your lack of self esteem and uncertainty of your own worth. Work on taking a really good self evaluation. This experience can be a wonderful learning opportunity for you. Work on communication with other people. Work on developing confidence.
· Study your rival.
Look closely at the person you are jealous about. What do you like and dislike about the person? Are his or her qualities beyond your abilities? Be sure you are not being unrealistic about that
person. Are you seeing things as they really are? Take control of your feelings. Terminate the relationship if nothing else seems to work. Take the time to concentrate on your own growth. Work at trying to understand and improve your relationship.
· Do not overreact.
Remember, most incidents are temporary so don't magnify what happened. Serious jealousy stems from a fear of loss, reputation, control of ourselves, our spouses, or relationships. Losing
control of our emotions and feelings will only make things worse.
Source: http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/dealing-with-jealousy-faq.htm
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Dealing with jealousy - What are the ways?
Jealousy is an emotion that can be very damaging to ANY relationship. It can also prevent you from growing emotionally. It is not the same thing as envy. Jealousy wants what someone else has. Envy is when you don't want someone else to have what you don't have. If a person is jealous, they already have what is desired but they are afraid of losing it. When you are feeling jealous, you are undergoing an emotional combination of anger, dependency, hurt, and self doubt. When you spend time focusing on what you are not, this is a result of insecurity. Sometimes when we are afraid of losing something, we actually cause it to happen because of our actions and behaviors. All our thoughts and actions are centered around our fears and insecurities. This causes more fear and insecurity. These feelings cause other harmful feelings and may result in us indulging in self pity. What are some ways of dealing with jealousy?
· Develop independence.
We need to be sure we are not overly dependant on any one person. We need to focus on the good things we have and not on what we don't have.
· Focus on developing more confidence and attractiveness.
Sometimes something simple like getting our hair done or changing our style of clothing can help. Taking a course on self esteem or assertiveness is also beneficial.
· Be honest with yourself.
Sit down with paper and list things that are making you jealous. Look at it objectively. Are these things silly or trivial or are they really important?
· Communicate with the person who is the object of your jealousy.
Tell them your feelings. Is that person doing something that is causing you to be jealous? Letting them know can often help the problem. If this other person cares for you, they will work on changing the behavior that is adding to your jealousy. Being aware of your feelings can also help you cope better. Realize that jealousy shows your lack of self esteem and uncertainty of your own worth. Work on taking a really good self evaluation. This experience can be a wonderful learning opportunity for you. Work on communication with other people. Work on developing confidence.
· Study your rival.
Look closely at the person you are jealous about. What do you like and dislike about the person? Are his or her qualities beyond your abilities? Be sure you are not being unrealistic about that
person. Are you seeing things as they really are? Take control of your feelings. Terminate the relationship if nothing else seems to work. Take the time to concentrate on your own growth. Work at trying to understand and improve your relationship.
· Do not overreact.
Remember, most incidents are temporary so don't magnify what happened. Serious jealousy stems from a fear of loss, reputation, control of ourselves, our spouses, or relationships. Losing
control of our emotions and feelings will only make things worse.
Source: http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/dealing-with-jealousy-faq.htm
Wednesday, October 19, 2005
New Shoes
Wearing a new pair of shoes today for the second time. My trusty work boots are falling apart, but had originally bought a lower cut pair earlier on during sales in preparation.
Breaking this new pair of shoes in, but feet is hurting a bit, particularly near the ankle. Not as painful as Monday when I wore it for the first time. Could hardly walk then due to the pain.
Anyone know of any good way of breaking in a new pair of leather shoes?
Breaking this new pair of shoes in, but feet is hurting a bit, particularly near the ankle. Not as painful as Monday when I wore it for the first time. Could hardly walk then due to the pain.
Anyone know of any good way of breaking in a new pair of leather shoes?
Monday, October 17, 2005
Seven Swords and books
Saw 7 swords ("7S") over the weekend, together with The Myth ("TM"). Didn't really like TM, some parts were enjoyable but on the whole, something was lacking. Can't quite put my finger to it.
For 7S, I liked it. However, thought the character developments were lacking for the other 3 swordsmen. The elder two had their story mentioned, but the younger 3 did not. The way it ended, probably paved the way for a sequel. Good fighting scene towards the end. Can't wait for the next instalment! :) I have never read the book or don't know the story, so my appreciation may be lacking. May try to hunt if there is an English translation for the story sometime.
Somehow for movies, these kind of "settings", Chinese historical or Medieval has some appeal to me. For reading, I especially like Science Fiction, but more towards the fantasy genre as opposed to the futuristic.
I started off reading SciFi when I was in Uni. Was browsing through some second hand books in a town called Cottingham (Hull), and the very first book I picked up was Dragon Flight by Anne McCaffrey. From there, I read almost all the Dragon series (except for the newer ones) and her other futuristic series. Picked up Tolkien's Lord of the Rings then, in 1991, and was further hooked. Also read "The Foundation" series by Isaac Asimov (very good!).
My favourite writer to date is David Gemmell (he writes predominantly on sword and sorcery). Just bought "Lord of the Silver Bow", but haven't had a chance to read it. I have read all his books and am collecting them. However, not a keen fan of the Jon Shannow series. Other writers I enjoy are Raymond E. Feist and L.E. Modesitt Jr.
Also enjoy books by:
RA Salvatore (some are good, others so so), Terry Brooks (esp like the Shannara series), Jenny Wurts, and Melanie Rawn.
Used to like David Eddings, but somehow, the writing style pales in comparison. Eddings attempts to include humour in his books, esp for the newer series, but somehow, it just doesn't work. I get bored quite quickly with his books now.
Have also read others, but not as spectacular as David Gemmell ("DG"). Somehow, although DG's storyline is tried and tested - and yes, may be similar for the different series written, it's somehow still very captivating. His first book I have ever read was "Legend", but my favourite character is still Tenaka Khan in the Drenai series! The BEST!
I usually go "hunting" for new books during sales in MPH, as I buy and keep like a collection. Now, have too many books already, don't know where to store them. Wanted to get a proper book shelve, but no place to put. Keeping them in smaller shelves as well as covered containers at the moment, but have not thought of long term plans for storing. I guess will have to do so sometime......
For 7S, I liked it. However, thought the character developments were lacking for the other 3 swordsmen. The elder two had their story mentioned, but the younger 3 did not. The way it ended, probably paved the way for a sequel. Good fighting scene towards the end. Can't wait for the next instalment! :) I have never read the book or don't know the story, so my appreciation may be lacking. May try to hunt if there is an English translation for the story sometime.
Somehow for movies, these kind of "settings", Chinese historical or Medieval has some appeal to me. For reading, I especially like Science Fiction, but more towards the fantasy genre as opposed to the futuristic.
I started off reading SciFi when I was in Uni. Was browsing through some second hand books in a town called Cottingham (Hull), and the very first book I picked up was Dragon Flight by Anne McCaffrey. From there, I read almost all the Dragon series (except for the newer ones) and her other futuristic series. Picked up Tolkien's Lord of the Rings then, in 1991, and was further hooked. Also read "The Foundation" series by Isaac Asimov (very good!).
My favourite writer to date is David Gemmell (he writes predominantly on sword and sorcery). Just bought "Lord of the Silver Bow", but haven't had a chance to read it. I have read all his books and am collecting them. However, not a keen fan of the Jon Shannow series. Other writers I enjoy are Raymond E. Feist and L.E. Modesitt Jr.
Also enjoy books by:
RA Salvatore (some are good, others so so), Terry Brooks (esp like the Shannara series), Jenny Wurts, and Melanie Rawn.
Used to like David Eddings, but somehow, the writing style pales in comparison. Eddings attempts to include humour in his books, esp for the newer series, but somehow, it just doesn't work. I get bored quite quickly with his books now.
Have also read others, but not as spectacular as David Gemmell ("DG"). Somehow, although DG's storyline is tried and tested - and yes, may be similar for the different series written, it's somehow still very captivating. His first book I have ever read was "Legend", but my favourite character is still Tenaka Khan in the Drenai series! The BEST!
I usually go "hunting" for new books during sales in MPH, as I buy and keep like a collection. Now, have too many books already, don't know where to store them. Wanted to get a proper book shelve, but no place to put. Keeping them in smaller shelves as well as covered containers at the moment, but have not thought of long term plans for storing. I guess will have to do so sometime......
Tuesday, October 11, 2005
Colours
Was having lunch today with some colleagues, and an ex-colleague who showed us some wedding pictures taken previously. There was a general discussion as to the colour scheme of the photos and which "series" so to say and which we prefer.
It is interesting that some prefered the classic wedding look, i.e. predominantly white, both staring into the camera type. Others prefered a more sensual look, red and dark brown being the dominant colour with the pose adopting a certain attitude. I like the latter better. Even more interesting, some prefered pictures taken outdoors and some indoors. There is so much variety nowadays, and just wondered if the preference stated underpins a person's internal feelings or outlook on life.
Can it be generalised to say that introverted people prefer indoors and a classic look, and extroverted people prefer outdoors with dominant colours? What about those in between, i.e. classic but outdoor, or dominant but indoors? What does it say about the character? Would moods affect the choice of colour?
Then again, there are the black and white shots which can be simply breathtaking if taken properly, outlining each minute detail of the picture. I have seen some black and white shots which simply outshine the coloured ones, especially those closed up shots showing a person's feature. This is where the observer simply focuses on the different nuances of monochrome tones and the emotions portrayed by the subject, as opposed to the observer being distracted by differing interplay of colours. I guess there are benefits of both and it depends upon what or how one feels at the point of looking at the pictures.
For myself, I tend to favour darker toned colours, especially navy blue, but am prone to go for darker shades of other colours, e.g. red, green or even orange. It also helps when people tell me that dark colours have a slimming effect! :P
It is interesting that some prefered the classic wedding look, i.e. predominantly white, both staring into the camera type. Others prefered a more sensual look, red and dark brown being the dominant colour with the pose adopting a certain attitude. I like the latter better. Even more interesting, some prefered pictures taken outdoors and some indoors. There is so much variety nowadays, and just wondered if the preference stated underpins a person's internal feelings or outlook on life.
Can it be generalised to say that introverted people prefer indoors and a classic look, and extroverted people prefer outdoors with dominant colours? What about those in between, i.e. classic but outdoor, or dominant but indoors? What does it say about the character? Would moods affect the choice of colour?
Then again, there are the black and white shots which can be simply breathtaking if taken properly, outlining each minute detail of the picture. I have seen some black and white shots which simply outshine the coloured ones, especially those closed up shots showing a person's feature. This is where the observer simply focuses on the different nuances of monochrome tones and the emotions portrayed by the subject, as opposed to the observer being distracted by differing interplay of colours. I guess there are benefits of both and it depends upon what or how one feels at the point of looking at the pictures.
For myself, I tend to favour darker toned colours, especially navy blue, but am prone to go for darker shades of other colours, e.g. red, green or even orange. It also helps when people tell me that dark colours have a slimming effect! :P
Monday, October 10, 2005
weekend
Had a good time last weekend. Met up with some friends on Saturday who wanted to try the char siu chicken wing dish. Turned out quite well actually, with a slight variation of grilling the chicken as well. Both microwaved and grilled dishes turned out pretty tasty if I do say so myself. :P
After that, watched "The Red Shoes" and "Boogeyman". Personally, I tend to avoid horror shows as I am not as daring and have a vivid imagination, but was "persuaded" to watch the two. I prefered "The Red Shoes" more than "Boogeyman", but both were not as scary as some other horror shows I have seen. I get more frightened if it is about spectres or spooks, and will avoid the chinese horror shows. I think one of the worse was Nightmare on Elm Street...
Much prefer to watch adventure or comedy shows. Looking forward to catch "Seven Swords" soon. Some friends usually complain about movies being slow, yes, that's true, but it takes time for events to unfold, and for the story to develop. Sometimes it is the little little things which makes a movie good, it need not be action packed/high adrenaline push all the way through the movie. Well, that's what I think anyway...
After that, watched "The Red Shoes" and "Boogeyman". Personally, I tend to avoid horror shows as I am not as daring and have a vivid imagination, but was "persuaded" to watch the two. I prefered "The Red Shoes" more than "Boogeyman", but both were not as scary as some other horror shows I have seen. I get more frightened if it is about spectres or spooks, and will avoid the chinese horror shows. I think one of the worse was Nightmare on Elm Street...
Much prefer to watch adventure or comedy shows. Looking forward to catch "Seven Swords" soon. Some friends usually complain about movies being slow, yes, that's true, but it takes time for events to unfold, and for the story to develop. Sometimes it is the little little things which makes a movie good, it need not be action packed/high adrenaline push all the way through the movie. Well, that's what I think anyway...
Thursday, October 06, 2005
bad... bad... sad... sad...
actually wrote this yesterday, but couldn't seem to post it online.
anyway, the day ended on a happier note... traffic was a breeze (as most were indoors eating), and my sister ta-paued "Sweet & Sour Chicken" for me for dinner! so, not so sad after all.... :)
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Had a tiring day at work today. Mental fatigue.
A friend called up last minute just before I had to go for a meeting at about 4pm, asking about the possibility of catching a movie, but no concrete plans. Either "Into the Blue (the one with Jessica Alba)" or "Flight Plan (the one with Jodie Foster)", but either movie will begin about 6:30pm or 6:45pm. A bit rushed if coming from Ampang to MidValley (my official working hour finishes at 5:15pm). So, scrapped plans.
Wanted to leave early today too, but suddenly realised that today is the first day of the fasting month. Traffic is normally quite bad from Ampang, but is compounded during this period as people rush to go home or somewhere to break their fast. Would probably not have gotten to MidValley before 6:30pm anyway from Ampang.
Also had a last minute unscheduled dinner plan, but will take me at least an hour's drive to get there. Didn't feel up to going as I was pretty tired out (what more with the traffic at this time). Felt more like going home and resting. Sometimes it is difficult to placate when expectation to meet up is there. However, I declined, but am feeling bad...
bad... bad... bad...
sad... sad... sad...
how to cheer myself up? was just binging on chocolate just now (the one with nuts!)... yeah.. EATING junk food again, but heck... once a while right?... err..just now, and just just now, and just just just now.... Actually, when I am stressed, I also eat... so that doesn't help....
How ah?
Must remember to think more happy thoughts.... think positive..... and relax.....
Just looked out my window to see whether there was a sunset to cheer me up!, but alas.... it's already dark outside.... got to be going and brave the traffic...
anyway, the day ended on a happier note... traffic was a breeze (as most were indoors eating), and my sister ta-paued "Sweet & Sour Chicken" for me for dinner! so, not so sad after all.... :)
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Had a tiring day at work today. Mental fatigue.
A friend called up last minute just before I had to go for a meeting at about 4pm, asking about the possibility of catching a movie, but no concrete plans. Either "Into the Blue (the one with Jessica Alba)" or "Flight Plan (the one with Jodie Foster)", but either movie will begin about 6:30pm or 6:45pm. A bit rushed if coming from Ampang to MidValley (my official working hour finishes at 5:15pm). So, scrapped plans.
Wanted to leave early today too, but suddenly realised that today is the first day of the fasting month. Traffic is normally quite bad from Ampang, but is compounded during this period as people rush to go home or somewhere to break their fast. Would probably not have gotten to MidValley before 6:30pm anyway from Ampang.
Also had a last minute unscheduled dinner plan, but will take me at least an hour's drive to get there. Didn't feel up to going as I was pretty tired out (what more with the traffic at this time). Felt more like going home and resting. Sometimes it is difficult to placate when expectation to meet up is there. However, I declined, but am feeling bad...
bad... bad... bad...
sad... sad... sad...
how to cheer myself up? was just binging on chocolate just now (the one with nuts!)... yeah.. EATING junk food again, but heck... once a while right?... err..just now, and just just now, and just just just now.... Actually, when I am stressed, I also eat... so that doesn't help....
How ah?
Must remember to think more happy thoughts.... think positive..... and relax.....
Just looked out my window to see whether there was a sunset to cheer me up!, but alas.... it's already dark outside.... got to be going and brave the traffic...
Monday, October 03, 2005
The Wicked Pitches - photos 2
Finally managed to get the pictures associated with the newspaper article on softcopy. Thank you very much to JK for helping out!
This first pic appeared in the NSTP's 27Sep05's Life and Times cover page. There's like a line going across the page cos' I folded the newspaper!
Alas, not all the group members were present for the photoshoot. A few did not turn up on the day for one reason or another.
Quite a few commented that I looked "rounder"... (my face that is!). Yeah, true enough, must find time to exercise again. Haven't been doing that for quite a while. The only exercise I get nowadays is going bowling. But, I guess is insufficient.
Been promising myself to sign up for the company's gym since last month (as we go by quarter year). But today is the beginning of October, and I have yet to sign up. Have told myself to also check out the gym in one of the condo blocks where I live, but also haven't gotten round to it.
Festive seasion coming soon, and after that Chinese New Year. EATING TIME!!! :P Maybe I should "diet" a bit during this month as Ramadan period kicks off.
I guess another incentive to target a trimmer me is for a scheduled 2006 end of year show by The Wicked Pitches. Have to look slimmer on stage. How ah?! Especially with all the good food around!
Friday, September 30, 2005
Char Siu Chicken Wing Dish
Was going through the files on my PC, and came across this recipe which I typed up in 2002 for my younger sister when she was learning how to cook. The dish remains one of my favourite even to this day. I “discovered” it whilst studying abroad having to cook by experimenting. Posting it here in the hope that one of the girls (SG? AH? LL?) will cook it for me to eat one day! :P
CHAR SIU CHICKEN WING DISH
RICE
1) Wash Rice for cooking, estimate water for cooking
2) After washing, add in about 1 tablespoon of chicken stock into the rice
3) Add in sultanas into the rice (estimate how much you like)
4) Can put in some spices – clove, star aniseed
5) Boil Rice like normal
6) When rice is cooked, let it set (i.e. leave it alone) for a while
CHICKEN WINGS
1) Wash chicken wings, and chop/cut into three parts
2) Put into big microwaveable bowl
3) Add more Char Siu Sauce, add some Hoi Sin Sauce (if have), and add BBQ sauce (if have)
4) Add chili powder (the more the tastier) :)
- if you put too little, really no taste - put more! put more!
5) Add a little bit of water (about 1/4 of a mug) only and mix well
6) Cover, and put into Microwave about 8 minutes
7) In the mean time, wash, peal and cut up cabbage into manageable pieces (strips)
8) When the 8 minutes are up, take out the bowl and stir
9) If the bowl is dry, add a bit more water.
10) Put in microwave for about another 8 minutes
11) Take out after 8 minutes. Mix cabbage into the chicken wing bowl and stir
12) If dry, add a bit of water. Add a table spoon of honey.
13) Cook in microwave for another 5 minutes.
14) Should be done, otherwise cook for a few more minutes.
CHAR SIU CHICKEN WING DISH
RICE
1) Wash Rice for cooking, estimate water for cooking
2) After washing, add in about 1 tablespoon of chicken stock into the rice
3) Add in sultanas into the rice (estimate how much you like)
4) Can put in some spices – clove, star aniseed
5) Boil Rice like normal
6) When rice is cooked, let it set (i.e. leave it alone) for a while
CHICKEN WINGS
1) Wash chicken wings, and chop/cut into three parts
2) Put into big microwaveable bowl
3) Add more Char Siu Sauce, add some Hoi Sin Sauce (if have), and add BBQ sauce (if have)
4) Add chili powder (the more the tastier) :)
- if you put too little, really no taste - put more! put more!
5) Add a little bit of water (about 1/4 of a mug) only and mix well
6) Cover, and put into Microwave about 8 minutes
7) In the mean time, wash, peal and cut up cabbage into manageable pieces (strips)
8) When the 8 minutes are up, take out the bowl and stir
9) If the bowl is dry, add a bit more water.
10) Put in microwave for about another 8 minutes
11) Take out after 8 minutes. Mix cabbage into the chicken wing bowl and stir
12) If dry, add a bit of water. Add a table spoon of honey.
13) Cook in microwave for another 5 minutes.
14) Should be done, otherwise cook for a few more minutes.
Memoirs - 2
I kneel a while here
contemplating my felicitous existence.
I kneel a while here
grateful for my entire being.
I kneel a while here
submerged in a pool of deep water.
I kneel a while here
watching bubbles slowing rising.
I kneel a while here
awaiting the burning sensation.
I kneel a while here
feeling my backside heating.
I kneel a while here
seething in the early throes of affliction.
but I kneel a while here
head bowed low in acceptance.
I kneel a while here
hearing my neighbours murmuring.
I kneel a while here
watching them quiver with trepidation.
but I kneel a while here
feeling a sense of calm.
I kneel a while here
knowing there’s a higher purpose.
I kneel a while here
awaiting the end of pain.
I kneel a while here
skin beginning to shimmer with lustre.
I kneel a while here
welcoming the internal change.
I kneel a while here
accepting the undeniable outcome.
I kneel a while here
slowly closing my eyes.
I kneel a while here
giving my selfless self up.
I kneel a while here
amidst the unending silence.
I kneel a while here
content in my being.
- confessions of another hard boiled egg.
written by AJ 30Sep2005
contemplating my felicitous existence.
I kneel a while here
grateful for my entire being.
I kneel a while here
submerged in a pool of deep water.
I kneel a while here
watching bubbles slowing rising.
I kneel a while here
awaiting the burning sensation.
I kneel a while here
feeling my backside heating.
I kneel a while here
seething in the early throes of affliction.
but I kneel a while here
head bowed low in acceptance.
I kneel a while here
hearing my neighbours murmuring.
I kneel a while here
watching them quiver with trepidation.
but I kneel a while here
feeling a sense of calm.
I kneel a while here
knowing there’s a higher purpose.
I kneel a while here
awaiting the end of pain.
I kneel a while here
skin beginning to shimmer with lustre.
I kneel a while here
welcoming the internal change.
I kneel a while here
accepting the undeniable outcome.
I kneel a while here
slowly closing my eyes.
I kneel a while here
giving my selfless self up.
I kneel a while here
amidst the unending silence.
I kneel a while here
content in my being.
- confessions of another hard boiled egg.
written by AJ 30Sep2005
Thursday, September 29, 2005
Memoirs - 1
I sit a while here
pondering this torrid existence.
I sit a while here
willing the passing of time.
I sit a while here
submerged in a pool of deep water.
I sit a while here
waiting to be picked up.
I sit a while here
watching bubbles slowing rising.
I sit a while here
awaiting the burning sensation.
I sit a while here
feeling my backside heating.
I sit a while here
making unsynchronised fidgety moves.
I sit a while here
watching my neighbours tremble.
I sit a while here
trembling in harmony with them.
I sit a while here
feeling the ever increasing heat.
I sit a while here
suffering the agony of pain.
I sit a while here
contemplating my unfortunate fate.
I sit a while here
as I begin to lose consciousness.
I sit a while here
murmuring silently for help.
I sit a while here
accepting the undeniable outcome.
I sit a while here
slowly closing my eyes.
I sit a while here
giving my selfless self up.
I sit a while here
amidst the unending silence.
I sit a while here
as I perish through the ages.
- confessions of a hard boiled egg.
written by AJ 29Sep2005
pondering this torrid existence.
I sit a while here
willing the passing of time.
I sit a while here
submerged in a pool of deep water.
I sit a while here
waiting to be picked up.
I sit a while here
watching bubbles slowing rising.
I sit a while here
awaiting the burning sensation.
I sit a while here
feeling my backside heating.
I sit a while here
making unsynchronised fidgety moves.
I sit a while here
watching my neighbours tremble.
I sit a while here
trembling in harmony with them.
I sit a while here
feeling the ever increasing heat.
I sit a while here
suffering the agony of pain.
I sit a while here
contemplating my unfortunate fate.
I sit a while here
as I begin to lose consciousness.
I sit a while here
murmuring silently for help.
I sit a while here
accepting the undeniable outcome.
I sit a while here
slowly closing my eyes.
I sit a while here
giving my selfless self up.
I sit a while here
amidst the unending silence.
I sit a while here
as I perish through the ages.
- confessions of a hard boiled egg.
written by AJ 29Sep2005
Sunset
Sometimes when I am driving or when I am leaving the office (Level 19), I see a wonderful sight which stops me in my tracks (well, not literally when I am driving, but ...). A colourful sunset has a certain appeal to me. The glow of the orangy-reddish hue enveloping the sky, against the backdrop of the city skyline just radiates a kind of peace and serenity. It makes me appreciate life - to be able to see such beauty, to be able to savour such moments...
I remember being in Tioman (9 years back!), waking up early just to catch the sunrise. Beautiful as it may be, with the colours interplaying, it cannot match the joy and sense of peace which a glorious sunset generates.
I still have fond memories as a child going for a car ride (as the chinese would say it "sik fung" or "eat air" as a direct translation), after dinner with my dad, just being enraptured by the sunset in my hometown. Sometimes, I would sit by the balcony, basking in the rays of the sunset, pondering deep thoughts (as deep a thought for a young child about the future), but strangely enough, the song "Que Sera, Sera. What ever will be, will be. The future's not us to see. Que Sera, Sera...... ", silently flit through my youthful mind.
Even now, I live with this maxim, "that we cannot predict the future". We live the life we have now as best we can. Savour the beautiful moments, appreciate the little things we have in life, thank God for another day gone past, and look forward to more glorious sunsets.
I remember being in Tioman (9 years back!), waking up early just to catch the sunrise. Beautiful as it may be, with the colours interplaying, it cannot match the joy and sense of peace which a glorious sunset generates.
I still have fond memories as a child going for a car ride (as the chinese would say it "sik fung" or "eat air" as a direct translation), after dinner with my dad, just being enraptured by the sunset in my hometown. Sometimes, I would sit by the balcony, basking in the rays of the sunset, pondering deep thoughts (as deep a thought for a young child about the future), but strangely enough, the song "Que Sera, Sera. What ever will be, will be. The future's not us to see. Que Sera, Sera...... ", silently flit through my youthful mind.
Even now, I live with this maxim, "that we cannot predict the future". We live the life we have now as best we can. Savour the beautiful moments, appreciate the little things we have in life, thank God for another day gone past, and look forward to more glorious sunsets.
Tuesday, September 27, 2005
The Wicked Pitches - photos
Can't seem to add the pic(s) from the newspapers yet, so putting a pic (or two!) of the Funkapella Strikes Back concert which we did in Oct04.
The Wicked Pitches - article
Am singing with an A Capella group called The Wicked Pitches. There was an article out in the New Straits Times this morning:
COVER STORY: Something wicked to sing about
FARIDUL ANWAR FARINORDIN
SEPT 27:
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This is no conventional a capella group. Part of the charm of Wicked Pitches lies in its cabaret showmanship and rib-tickling choreography, writes FARIDUL ANWAR FARINORDIN
THE best way to describe a performance by local a capella group Wicked Pitches is this: A colourful cabaret show featuring mime artistes as four-part (sometimes more) harmony singers.
No, really. Although the group’s harmonising follows the old-school barbershop musical tradition, the members are known for their unconventional showmanship. For one thing, don’t expect them to appear on stage in black, which is what other vocal groups prefer.
For the members, dull and boring monotone costumes are a BIG no-no. They also don’t believe in a performance that only requires them to stand in a row and sing into the microphones with a few uninspiring hand gestures — oh please, that is so last century.
If you have been to their shows in the past, you’ll probably remember the wicked elements: colourful feather boas, batik props, cute dance moves and rib-tickling choreography. All these are part of the Wicked Pitches’ audience-friendly approach to make a capella music more accessible.
A lot of its charm has got to do with its motley crew of fun-loving members who came together in 2001 because of their passion for singing. Or maybe it’s because they don’t take themselves too seriously, except for music of course.
Comprising 14 members from various professions, the group’s founding members are Elizabeth Choong (project manager), Cheong Whye Mun (lawyer), Allan Yap (baker), J.P. Thong (hotelier), Yap Kheng Han (corporate financier), Mimi Liau (lecturer and the group’s music director), Nigel A. Skelchy (wedding planner), Sam Tseu (dentist), Renita Che Wan (student), and Serena Djatnika (retiree).
This year, unfortunately, Renita and Serena left to pursue other things and new voices were added — Adeline Ong (business manager), Alex Jong (investment analyst), Zalina Lee (musician), William Kow (marketing executive) and Cheryl Toa (banker).
"We have somewhat formalised the structure of the group and only 10 singers will perform at any one time. This flexibility allows other members and those with work commitments to take a break," says Nigel, who "moved up to tenor (singing) from bass" recently.
"We now have five tenors — can you believe that? People normally have problems getting tenors. Having said that, we can switch from (singing) top to bottom (lines) anytime!" he adds with a hearty laugh. Oh, did I tell you that the members also have a wicked sense of humour too?
On a more serious note, Allan says: "Most of us were from the Selangor Philharmonic Choir. We decided to form an a capella group out of our love for this singing tradition. It’s our passion and relentless drive to promote this tradition that sustains us till today."
The group’s performances in the past have been embraced by critics and audiences alike. Highly entertaining and wickedly fun, they are all about low-brow quality entertainment with a touch of glitz, glamour and a deft musical tradition.
Wicked Pitches’ concerts, Funkappella! — A Concert By The Wicked Pitches (2003) and Funkappella Strikes Back (2004) were both nominated in the 2nd and 3rd Boh Cameronian Arts Awards for two consecutive years (for Best Concert — Musical Theatre category).
With a wide repertoire of songs including old classics — Short People, Embraceable You, Java Jive and P. Ramlee’s Getaran Jiwa, as well as favourite local folk numbers like Rasa Sayang and Dayung Sampan, the members have also performed at corporate functions, weddings and numerous festive occasions.
Recently, another colourful and fluffy feather was added to its sequined and diamante-studded fancy hat when Wicked Pitches became the only local vocal outfit to perform at Singapore’s A Capella Fest 2005. It was their first overseas gig.
Organised by The A Capella Society of Singapore, it was held for one night at Kallang Theatre. Apart from the Pitches, the annual festival also saw participation from eight other a capella groups in Singapore.
Skelchy observed: "Teenagers form the bulk of interest in a capella music in Singapore and there are more than 30 active vocal groups there, while the audience comprised mainly of schoolchildren. It was an eye-opening experience for us to share the stage with them. Some of us thought our performance was too bright!"
Wicked Pitches was invited by The A Capella Society’s Angeline Choo to be part of the event.
"She became a very good supporter of Wicked Pitches after reading about our performance in Funkapella. Since then, we have been keeping in touch."
He continues: "There is a huge interest at school level in choir and a capella singing there. As such, we see a lot of teenage groups singing contemporary materials — from hip-hop and R&B to pop."
Most of the groups, he said, "call themselves vocal bands rather than a capella groups. Members mimic the sounds of music instruments — one does drums, the other fills in with guitar. The method is very old school as compared to most (a capella) groups in Malaysia."
Wicked Pitches sang five songs (to a sell-out hall) at the event, namely A Capella, Blue Moon, Teddy Bear’s Picnic, Joy to the World and the Rasa Sayang medley. "We were allotted the most number of songs. Other groups only got three!"
And get this: "For the Rasa Sayang medley, which included popular folk songs like Dayung Sampan and Lenggang Kangkong, we got the boys to do the lenggang (the exaggerated, hip-swaying walk normally associated with a traditional dance)!" he said with a giggle. "The audience loved it!"
The group is planning to expand its repertoire to include vocal percussion and beat-boxing.
"We started out with traditional a capella numbers, what music pundits call neo-classical a capella with close harmony, as well as classical stuff. Now, we are planning to experiment with more rhythmic stuff to allow us to perform pop songs like Miami Sound Machine’s Turn the Beat Around," said Skelchy.
That new musical style is also known as "contemporary pop a capella", Allan said, but added that "our strength lies in close harmony numbers. We just want to add more vocal richness to our repertoire by doing some of the new stuff".
So what keeps the group together?
"First and foremost is the passion for singing. The fact that we have become good friends plays a significant role. We love it when we’re together."
Liau, the group’s music director, added: "It is also important that we share the same goal which is to make our craft better. We get so much satisfaction from performing together that we are still doing this until today."
There is no room for prima donnas in Wicked Pitches. "We all chip in and no one person dominates the decision-making. Our mission is to entertain and, at the same time, achieve technical perfection in our vocal performance — that’s all," said Skelchy.
Despite the very successful Funkapella performances in the last two years, the group has decided to postpone its third installation this year.
"We want to take a break. It’s too much hard work. We did everything — including fund-raising, ticket-selling, performing to producing, licensing and marketing aspects," said Allan. "We plan to do a major concert next year."
Plans are also underway to have original music re-arrangements written "specifically for our voices, so that we have more fun material to present."
COVER STORY: Something wicked to sing about
FARIDUL ANWAR FARINORDIN
SEPT 27:
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This is no conventional a capella group. Part of the charm of Wicked Pitches lies in its cabaret showmanship and rib-tickling choreography, writes FARIDUL ANWAR FARINORDIN
THE best way to describe a performance by local a capella group Wicked Pitches is this: A colourful cabaret show featuring mime artistes as four-part (sometimes more) harmony singers.
No, really. Although the group’s harmonising follows the old-school barbershop musical tradition, the members are known for their unconventional showmanship. For one thing, don’t expect them to appear on stage in black, which is what other vocal groups prefer.
For the members, dull and boring monotone costumes are a BIG no-no. They also don’t believe in a performance that only requires them to stand in a row and sing into the microphones with a few uninspiring hand gestures — oh please, that is so last century.
If you have been to their shows in the past, you’ll probably remember the wicked elements: colourful feather boas, batik props, cute dance moves and rib-tickling choreography. All these are part of the Wicked Pitches’ audience-friendly approach to make a capella music more accessible.
A lot of its charm has got to do with its motley crew of fun-loving members who came together in 2001 because of their passion for singing. Or maybe it’s because they don’t take themselves too seriously, except for music of course.
Comprising 14 members from various professions, the group’s founding members are Elizabeth Choong (project manager), Cheong Whye Mun (lawyer), Allan Yap (baker), J.P. Thong (hotelier), Yap Kheng Han (corporate financier), Mimi Liau (lecturer and the group’s music director), Nigel A. Skelchy (wedding planner), Sam Tseu (dentist), Renita Che Wan (student), and Serena Djatnika (retiree).
This year, unfortunately, Renita and Serena left to pursue other things and new voices were added — Adeline Ong (business manager), Alex Jong (investment analyst), Zalina Lee (musician), William Kow (marketing executive) and Cheryl Toa (banker).
"We have somewhat formalised the structure of the group and only 10 singers will perform at any one time. This flexibility allows other members and those with work commitments to take a break," says Nigel, who "moved up to tenor (singing) from bass" recently.
"We now have five tenors — can you believe that? People normally have problems getting tenors. Having said that, we can switch from (singing) top to bottom (lines) anytime!" he adds with a hearty laugh. Oh, did I tell you that the members also have a wicked sense of humour too?
On a more serious note, Allan says: "Most of us were from the Selangor Philharmonic Choir. We decided to form an a capella group out of our love for this singing tradition. It’s our passion and relentless drive to promote this tradition that sustains us till today."
The group’s performances in the past have been embraced by critics and audiences alike. Highly entertaining and wickedly fun, they are all about low-brow quality entertainment with a touch of glitz, glamour and a deft musical tradition.
Wicked Pitches’ concerts, Funkappella! — A Concert By The Wicked Pitches (2003) and Funkappella Strikes Back (2004) were both nominated in the 2nd and 3rd Boh Cameronian Arts Awards for two consecutive years (for Best Concert — Musical Theatre category).
With a wide repertoire of songs including old classics — Short People, Embraceable You, Java Jive and P. Ramlee’s Getaran Jiwa, as well as favourite local folk numbers like Rasa Sayang and Dayung Sampan, the members have also performed at corporate functions, weddings and numerous festive occasions.
Recently, another colourful and fluffy feather was added to its sequined and diamante-studded fancy hat when Wicked Pitches became the only local vocal outfit to perform at Singapore’s A Capella Fest 2005. It was their first overseas gig.
Organised by The A Capella Society of Singapore, it was held for one night at Kallang Theatre. Apart from the Pitches, the annual festival also saw participation from eight other a capella groups in Singapore.
Skelchy observed: "Teenagers form the bulk of interest in a capella music in Singapore and there are more than 30 active vocal groups there, while the audience comprised mainly of schoolchildren. It was an eye-opening experience for us to share the stage with them. Some of us thought our performance was too bright!"
Wicked Pitches was invited by The A Capella Society’s Angeline Choo to be part of the event.
"She became a very good supporter of Wicked Pitches after reading about our performance in Funkapella. Since then, we have been keeping in touch."
He continues: "There is a huge interest at school level in choir and a capella singing there. As such, we see a lot of teenage groups singing contemporary materials — from hip-hop and R&B to pop."
Most of the groups, he said, "call themselves vocal bands rather than a capella groups. Members mimic the sounds of music instruments — one does drums, the other fills in with guitar. The method is very old school as compared to most (a capella) groups in Malaysia."
Wicked Pitches sang five songs (to a sell-out hall) at the event, namely A Capella, Blue Moon, Teddy Bear’s Picnic, Joy to the World and the Rasa Sayang medley. "We were allotted the most number of songs. Other groups only got three!"
And get this: "For the Rasa Sayang medley, which included popular folk songs like Dayung Sampan and Lenggang Kangkong, we got the boys to do the lenggang (the exaggerated, hip-swaying walk normally associated with a traditional dance)!" he said with a giggle. "The audience loved it!"
The group is planning to expand its repertoire to include vocal percussion and beat-boxing.
"We started out with traditional a capella numbers, what music pundits call neo-classical a capella with close harmony, as well as classical stuff. Now, we are planning to experiment with more rhythmic stuff to allow us to perform pop songs like Miami Sound Machine’s Turn the Beat Around," said Skelchy.
That new musical style is also known as "contemporary pop a capella", Allan said, but added that "our strength lies in close harmony numbers. We just want to add more vocal richness to our repertoire by doing some of the new stuff".
So what keeps the group together?
"First and foremost is the passion for singing. The fact that we have become good friends plays a significant role. We love it when we’re together."
Liau, the group’s music director, added: "It is also important that we share the same goal which is to make our craft better. We get so much satisfaction from performing together that we are still doing this until today."
There is no room for prima donnas in Wicked Pitches. "We all chip in and no one person dominates the decision-making. Our mission is to entertain and, at the same time, achieve technical perfection in our vocal performance — that’s all," said Skelchy.
Despite the very successful Funkapella performances in the last two years, the group has decided to postpone its third installation this year.
"We want to take a break. It’s too much hard work. We did everything — including fund-raising, ticket-selling, performing to producing, licensing and marketing aspects," said Allan. "We plan to do a major concert next year."
Plans are also underway to have original music re-arrangements written "specifically for our voices, so that we have more fun material to present."
Friday, September 23, 2005
My First BLOG!
My first BLOG! and I have a mental block...
Don't know why, but when I was driving home the other day, was asking myself:
a. If positive X positive = positive, and
b. If positive X negative = negative, and
c. If negative X positive = negative, then
d. Why is negative X negative = positive?
Hmmm....
Don't know why, but when I was driving home the other day, was asking myself:
a. If positive X positive = positive, and
b. If positive X negative = negative, and
c. If negative X positive = negative, then
d. Why is negative X negative = positive?
Hmmm....
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