Wednesday, July 11, 2007

A Different Kind of Prayer

Came across this from an email I received, and it struck me how impatient I can be at times. Just the other day, I was driving to go someplace, and there was this car which was going like super slow in front of me. I wanted to honk but I didn't (but I flashed my headlights once though), and as I overtook the car, I saw a very elderly man driving with his equally elderly wife in the car. I felt extremely guilty for being so impatient and what's more, the paragraph below of the old couple hits me like a hard stone, and I sincerely hope to be even more tolerant.

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Heavenly Father,

Help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and was rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.

Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.

Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job)! is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.

Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store aisles and blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together.

Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear. Open our hearts not just to those who are close to us but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judgment and quick to forgiveness and patience and empathy and love.

AMEN

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4 comments:

Elaine Gaye said...

Thank you for this, Alex. Very timely for me, as I regularly struggle with impatience and intolerance.

Anonymous said...

Aiyoh.. I baru saja cursed at an elderly lady driving a camry in front of me who was hesitant to change lane... anyway, I just hope that she doesn't hurt herself. Her family shouldnt let her drive is she is so clumsy.

laymank said...

I also 'tekan' another iswara just a hour plus ago...

haiz...

eddY said...

shit! okok. needless me to say more. got to be patient... easy to use, hard to practice :s

thks for the reminder...